Free yourself from codependent patterns and become a master at creating the relationship you deserve

One One One

Coaching

This program is NOT for you IF

You think change comes about through magical thinking or are convinced that doing the same thing over and over will deliver a different result.

 This program IS for you IF

You are feeling hopeless, helpless and powerless and have a DESIRE to change what you have been doing.

You are DETERMINED to change attitudes and actions that hamper you and nurture those that help you become a master at creating the relationships you deserve.


You are CERTAIN that the seemingly impossible is possible. 


If I could do it, so can you!   

​​​​​Hi, I'm Philippa​
It's my greatest joy to help co-dependents free themselves from self-destructive patterns and become masters at creating the relationships they deserve.

Discover hot to transform your beliefs, transcend your fears and master a set of skills to create a relationship you deserve. 


Online course + assignments with feedback

RELATIONSHIP BLUEPRINT

​​​​​​If in an abusive relationship – this is not your fault. You are not the problem.You are, however, the solution

Why should I trust you?

HERE'S WHY:
How many talks have you listened to, how many self-help books have you read and how many visualizations have you chanted? Did any of them effect real change? 

Of course not. I know because I was just like you. Desperate to find a fix, terrified of being alone and convinced I was destined to a life of hopelessness.

THIS IS YOUR TIME! LET'S BEGIN

Why me? - codependency is bred in childhood

 Here's how I can help you

​This is a useful checklist to evaluate whether or not your relationship qualifies as abusive. If you say yes to 12 or more of the items in this list, your relationship qualifies as abusive.

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Are you afraid you will end up alone?
Fed up waiting for the perfect man?
Waiting for him to change?


“We cannot see what we don’t understand.

 Finally, a book about abuse that blazes a path through the complex dynamics of domestic violence and helps the one who is being hurt to look at herself – with compassion and tough love. To be strategic and smart.  To choose herself.

 This fairy tale busting, no-bullshit, no judgment gem of a book brings together the collaborative genius of a brilliant therapist and a courageous survivor of abuse and offers stories, strategies and solutions to one of the most misunderstood and intractable of human  intractable of human predicaments: when a woman loves a man who hurts her.

 Compelling, insightful and utterly liberating. I wanted to stand and cheer when I finished reading it.

 This book will save lives”.        - JOANNE FEDLER, INTERNATIONAL BEST- SELLING AUTHOR AND WOMEN’S RIGHTS ACTIVIST 

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The safest children are those with a healthy self-esteem. There is no greater gift you can give your children.

​​​​​​DON'T TAKE MY WORD FOR IT

 Here are some of the incredible reviews we received from a producer at CNN, an international best-selling author and women’s rights activist, an LA radio host, a Ted X speaker and a doctor who is a specialist in human sexuality. 

 “By sharing her painful journey, and those of other women who have endured pain and shame, Philippa Sklaar provides remarkable insight, guidance and hope for anyone trapped in an abusive relationship.

When Loving Him Hurts is a beautiful and poignant reminder that everyone has options”.  - NADIA BILCHIK CNN EDITORIAL PRODUCER



Relationship 

Blueprint

HOW CAN I TRUST WHAT YOU CLAIM IS TRUE?

Discover how to transform your beliefs, transcend your fears and master a set of skills to create a relationship you deserve.


A groundbreaking 8 week boot camp that challenges you to flex muscles you never knew you had. 

Join our growing community to get access to my free resources and advice on any of your relationship concerns

Wherever you are I will meet you and help you figure out what’s stopping you from having it all


4 one hour private sessions  + assignments with feedback

The universe keeps a perfect set of books - and she charges interest

Let today be the last day you pay interest!

LET'S GET GOING!!